Huuuuaaa, big buddy, we are deep in learning territory here!
Ok, I did the iptables -L first, just to be sure I didn't screw anything up. Then I dug in my archive of material, looking for my iptables stuff from a few years back. Earlier in this whole process, I had taken a quick look around for an iptables script, forgetting that "-L" option (that's it, I forget the obvious and simple answer!).
So, before we go any farther, I'm bewildered. There is no etc/firewall, there are no firewall.* scripts, there are no iptables.* scripts or conf file. Not anywhere in my whole file system. There is an iptables.h, but it's a zer0-byter. What's up with this? How is VL setting the iptables rules? Or did Firestarter do that?

BTW, don't get me wrong - from a security standpoint, this all seems like a good thing. But from a control standpoint - trying to get my stuff working, well . . .
Thanks for your time.
Mark
Oh, and here's the iptables rules - which also look COMPLETELY different from my reference files of 5 years ago! What happened to this format: <<iptables -A INPUT -i eth0 -m state --state ESTABLISHED,RELATED -j ACCEPT>>





Chain INPUT (policy DROP)
target prot opt source destination
ACCEPT all -- anywhere loopback/8
ACCEPT all -- anywhere anywhere state RELATED,ESTABLISHED
ACCEPT all -f anywhere anywhere
ACCEPT udp -- anywhere anywhere udp dpt:ssh
ACCEPT tcp -- anywhere anywhere tcp dpt:ssh
ACCEPT udp -- anywhere anywhere udp dpt:domain
ACCEPT tcp -- anywhere anywhere tcp dpt:domain
ACCEPT udp -- anywhere anywhere udp dpt:http
ACCEPT tcp -- anywhere anywhere tcp dpt:http
ACCEPT udp -- anywhere anywhere udp dpt:https
ACCEPT tcp -- anywhere anywhere tcp dpt:https
ACCEPT udp -- anywhere anywhere udp dpt:ftp
ACCEPT tcp -- anywhere anywhere tcp dpt:ftp
ACCEPT udp -- anywhere anywhere udp dpt:ftp-data
ACCEPT tcp -- anywhere anywhere tcp dpt:ftp-data
ACCEPT udp -- anywhere anywhere udp dpt:netbios-ns
ACCEPT tcp -- anywhere anywhere tcp dpt:netbios-ns
ACCEPT udp -- anywhere anywhere udp dpt:netbios-dgm
ACCEPT tcp -- anywhere anywhere tcp dpt:netbios-dgm
ACCEPT udp -- anywhere anywhere udp dpt:netbios-ssn
ACCEPT tcp -- anywhere anywhere tcp dpt:netbios-ssn
ACCEPT icmp -- anywhere anywhere icmp echo-reply
ACCEPT icmp -- anywhere anywhere icmp destination-unreachable
ACCEPT icmp -- anywhere anywhere icmp echo-request
ACCEPT icmp -- anywhere anywhere icmp time-exceeded
Chain FORWARD (policy DROP)
target prot opt source destination
Chain OUTPUT (policy ACCEPT)
target prot opt source destination