You can't "force" it to use one module.
Think of it like this
Several modules might provide support (or at least claim they do) for this chip.
For instance, on broadcom wireless, some chips work with wl, bcm43xx bcm, etc
In order to "Force" one of these on your chip, you'll have to unload all others that claim to support it...
I guess My next move would be to boot into PCLOS or one of the other distros that have this working out of the box and see which module they use for it
save their lsmod and post it here. at lease one of them