OK so: did as advised with the pam.d folder thanks
Screen res now fixed
mouse doing its' thing in and out of VM (Yes sorry vmws6 latest build.)
All good
BUT:
had to leave the box running for 2 hours, when I got back total freeze

Mouse cursor moving but no response to L or R clicks: cursor jumping to edge of vm active window with clicking. Nil else. No response to keyboard short cuts
Req hard reboot: home fine, restart VM " KDe file system failed unexpectedly"
( as opposed to expected ?

)
Messages confusing: vmware tools out of date , and , vmware tools not installed.
No icons on desktop
>root> reinstalled tools and all good again

Obviously not specifically a Vector issue; just pita
This happened before with another distro; some problem somewhere.
Be happy not to have the tools but need the screen res up a bit form native install without tools
How do i get the xorg config thingy set up after install in VM ?
Any walk through for VMWare or VBox (not emotionally attached to either)?

Thanks
this is a cool distro: has what i need
Getting closer to getting off the M$ conveyer belt.
I do have one older database and accounting app that will only run in Windoze and it is mission critical.
regards
Stephen