One of the big advantages of sudo is that it logs the commands you run with it. I've occasionally done something stupid and caused breakage on my system. Looking through my log and seeing what command I ran has saved me a lot of time and effort.
You need to do the following to make sudo work for you:
1. Add your account to the wheel group.
2. Open a terminal window and su to root.
3. As root, run visudo. This will bring up a special instance of the vi editor designed to work with your sudoers (sudo configuration) file. Don't worry about the complexity of the file in front of you. You only have to make a tiny, easy one character change. Type in:
/wheel
and hit enter. That tells visudo to search for "wheel" and take you to the first occurrence. You'll see a section like this towards the middle of the screen:
##
# User specification
##
# root and users in group wheel can run anything on any machine as any user
root ALL=(ALL) ALL
#%wheel ALL=(ALL) ALL
Use your arrow keys (NOT your mouse) to position your cursor over the first character in the line
#%wheel ALL=(ALL) ALL
Type x
That's lower case x, no return. The leading # should disappear and the line should now read:
%wheel ALL=(ALL) ALL
If so type in:
:wq
and hit enter. Your account will now work with sudo.
One caution: NEVER use any editor besides visudo to edit your sudoers file. By design that will damage the file and may render it useless. vi and visudo aren't easy for people who aren't used to them but you really don't have a choice in this case unless you go through far more complicated steps than what I just described.
Good luck!